No mountain high...right? Pt.1

The greatest most stressful wonderful annoying time of your life. Some good a lot of bad and that is just the tip of the ice burg.

Rather one thinks so or not there is a lot of good that can come from a long distance relationship. You have the building and formation of trust which is major in relationships. You have your own space to do you and not feel chained down (even though at most times you still feel this chained down feeling but it sounds good). And obviously the person you care for still wants to try and work things out no matter how far you are and that right there deserves a hand clap on its own *clap clap* so you see good is there HOWEVER, to be honest there is so much more bad that comes a long with trying to keep a functioning relationship when u cant see a person for months at a time. And every body knows the main reason why... CHEATING! Nobody wants to play the fool. With so much temptation in the world how could one expect their partner to play blind to the fact that their are so many people of the opposite sex running around not caring who you are with and why. Not to mention your so called "friends" who are telling you "you really think they out there being good and faithful to you" it's enough to make you want to lock your self in a room stay away from everyone a hope that your significant other is doing the something! The stress an worry of your partners every move is enough for me to make my next statement which is.. If someone was to ask me if I would recommend they try to be in a long distance relationship with somebody my answer would be NO NO NO NO!

The bottom line is if you are in a long distance relationship then you probably really care about the person you are with or else you wouldn't do it. But unless you guys are ready to go through some terrible times and really be tested till your breaking point I suggest you just keep it cool, stay in contact with that person (which is not hard in this social network world we live in) and maybe try things when your actually able to enjoy ones company.

Lots more to come on this subject but till then Be Blessed..signing out -Cartel